By Edo Segal
The cost I could not find on any dashboard was the one eating my household alive.
I knew about productivity gains. I had the numbers memorized — twenty-fold multipliers, thirty-day product cycles, trillion-dollar market shifts. I had chapters drafted about ascending friction and the democratization of capability and the river of intelligence flowing since the beginning of time. I had frameworks for everything.
I did not have a framework for the look on my wife's face.
Not anger. Something quieter. The specific fatigue of a person who has been holding the entire weight of a shared life while the other person disappears into a screen, night after night, convinced the work is historically important. Convinced the exhilaration is evidence of creative flow rather than compulsion. Convinced that
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